Last year, I regret introducing a guy friend to another group (group that is so dear to me). This guy has a girlfriend for 2 years or more I guess. To keep the story short, this guy unfortunately fell in love to another girl that happens to be in the said group.
I feel guilty for something I shouldn't be guilty of. Can't believe that kind of "drama" could really happen, they are too old for such s*** and shouldn't be my problem . But I feel for the "ex" and now I'm really hating the people who made her cry...a lot. I'm not the ex but I know how it feels to be cheated on and left hanging or not knowing the TRUTH why a really good relationship could end horribly.
Until now, whenever I see the guy together with this girl, I feel this sudden pinch in my heart and whisper that someday, one day, KARMA will do the dirty work.
Yes I'm a believer, and should not act or react like this, I should just pray for them and forgive but there are times, when someone really have to learn, even the hard way. How can someone be that happy when someone is hurt badly? A cold blooded can...And yeah, how can someone use God or religion to be an excuse? If he really wanted to change for the better, he could've asked his ex to go or attend to same church where he found this peace/change he's looking for. Maybe they're are now happily growing in faith together.
Anyway, enough with these, It's his fault and decision not mine. At present, I don't consider him a friend anymore, I decided to let go of the people who will just make me a lesser human. And for the "ex", I hope that one day, she'll meet her man not of her dreams but the man of her reality who will love her faithfully and will love her solely "walang kahati, walang iba". Every honest girl deserves such man right God? no need to ask, it is a YES!
To end this entry, let's be reminded that:
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.(1 Corinthians 13:4–8a )
